What is Somatic Experiencing?
A gentle, body-based way of working with trauma and stress.
If you've found your way here, some part of you is already reaching for something to shift, and that's a beautiful place to begin. Somatic Experiencing is a gentle, body-based approach to healing trauma and chronic stress. Together, we work with how your nervous system is holding an experience now, and we help your body finish the responses that got interrupted, so you can feel more settled in your own skin.
A way of working with the body, not just the story
Somatic Experiencing, often shortened to SE, was developed by Dr Peter Levine over many years, and the heart of it is something you may already sense in your own body. So much of what we call trauma is really a nervous system story. When your system gets overwhelmed and can't complete its natural survival response, all of that mobilised energy has nowhere to go, and it stays held in the body.
When that happens, your body keeps bracing for something that's already over. Maybe you notice tension you can't explain, a startle that never quite switches off, feelings that surge before you can think, or a flatness that makes it hard to feel much at all. None of this means something is wrong with you.
SE helps that held energy move, so your system can finally soften and settle.
A lesson from the wild
Levine noticed something tender and surprising. Animals in the wild meet life-threatening moments all the time, yet they rarely carry trauma afterward. After a near miss, a deer will tremble, shake, take a few big breaths, and then carry on as though nothing happened. That shaking is doing real, beautiful work. The body is releasing the huge charge of survival energy it just gathered.
We have the very same wiring. The difference is that we tend to override it. We tell ourselves to hold it together, to be fine, to push on. The energy that wanted to move never gets its chance, and the nervous system stays switched on. So much of SE is simply giving your body permission to finish what it started.
Working with sensation, gently and slowly
A few gentle principles sit underneath the work.
- Tracking sensation. You learn to notice what's happening in your body rather than analysing your thoughts: warmth, tightness, an impulse to move, a held breath. These are the signals your nervous system speaks in, and they show us, kindly, where it's still holding on.
- Titration. We work in small, manageable doses. You touch a little activation, then come back to something steady, so your system is never flooded. Going slowly is the whole method, and it's what keeps you safe and resourced along the way.
- Pendulation. Your attention moves gently back and forth between what feels hard and what feels okay. That rhythm is how your nervous system learns it can visit discomfort and always find its way home to safety.
- Completion. Defensive responses that got cut off, like the urge to push away, run, or fight, can finally move through in a safe and contained way. As they do, the old charge releases, and there's often a real sense of relief.
What it actually looks like
SE sessions are conversational and unhurried, and you're always in the lead. You don't have to retell your trauma in detail, and you set the pace for what you share. Much of the work is simply noticing, out loud, what you're aware of in your body, while I help you stay within a range that feels manageable for you.
Over time, people often notice they're less reactive, sleeping more easily, more present with the people they love, and able to feel things they'd gone numb to. It's a beautiful thing to watch unfold.
Research into SE is still growing, and a randomised study published in 2017 found meaningful reductions in post-traumatic stress symptoms. SE works alongside medical and psychological care rather than replacing it, and good practitioners hold it that way.
When Somatic Experiencing tends to help
People often find their way to SE when talking has taken them as far as it can, and something still hasn't shifted. Maybe you'll recognise yourself here. It can help with:
- The aftereffects of trauma, including complex and developmental trauma
- Anxiety and chronic stress that won't settle
- Freeze, shutdown, or a sense of being numb and disconnected
- Hypervigilance, a short fuse, or being easily startled
- Sleep problems and a body that never quite relaxes
You don't need one big, obvious trauma to benefit, my friend. So many capable, high-functioning people quietly carry low-grade dysregulation for years without ever naming it. There's nothing self-indulgent about reaching for more ease.
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How I work with SE in Thornbury, Elsternwick, and online across Australia.
See how I work →Frequently asked questions
What's the difference between Somatic Experiencing and talk therapy?
Talk therapy works mostly with the story and your thoughts about it. SE works with the body and the nervous system, gently resolving the physical charge that stays behind after a hard experience. Many people come to SE after talking has given them insight, yet the relief they were hoping for hasn't quite arrived.
Do I have to talk about my trauma?
No, and this matters. SE doesn't require you to retell or relive past events, and retelling without enough support can actually do harm. Sessions stay with what your body is experiencing now, and you share as much or as little as feels right for you.
How long does it take?
There's no fixed timeline, and that's okay. It depends on what you're working with, how long you've carried it, and the support around you. Some people notice shifts early. Deeper patterns take more time. The direction you're heading matters more than the speed.
Is Somatic Experiencing evidence-based?
SE has a growing research base, including a randomised controlled study showing reductions in post-traumatic stress symptoms. It's practised around the world by trained and certified practitioners, and it works alongside medical or psychological treatment rather than replacing it.
Can I do Somatic Experiencing online?
Yes, beautifully. SE works well online as well as in person. Many people start online and move to in-person later, or stay online the whole way. I offer both, in Melbourne and across Australia.
Wondering if this is your next step?
The first step is a free 30-minute call. No pitch and no pressure, just a warm conversation about where you are and whether this way of working feels right for you. None of us are ever truly done growing, and there's always more ease and aliveness to come home to.
👉 There's room for you here whenever you're ready.
Thank you for trusting yourself enough to explore this. I'd be honoured to walk alongside you.