Imposter Syndrome in Executives | Rudi Doku
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Imposter syndrome in executives

Imposter syndrome in executives is the ongoing sense that you've somehow fooled people about your ability, and that being found out is only a meeting away, even when your record says the opposite. At senior level it often gets louder. The higher you go, the more ambiguous the work becomes and the thinner the honest feedback, so the gap between how competent you look and how you feel keeps widening. What helps is changing how you relate to the part of you that keeps raising the alarm, since more proof of competence rarely quiets it for long.

Seniority

Why it gets worse the higher you go

Most people expect the feeling to fade with each promotion. For a lot of executives it does the reverse. Early in a career, competence is visible and measurable. You hit targets and close deals, and someone checks your work and tells you it's good. At the top, that feedback thins out. The decisions become judgement calls with no clean answer, and the people who could reassure you are now below you or gone. Add stakes high enough that any doubt has room to grow, and the conditions are set.

Then there's the isolation. Senior leaders rarely admit this feeling to their peers, because the culture of the top table tends to reward certainty. So each person quietly assumes they're the only one faking it, which makes the whole thing heavier and more secret than it needs to be.

What's underneath

The parts underneath the feeling

Imposter feelings rarely come from one place. Underneath, there's often a part of you scanning for the moment you'll be exposed, and another that drives you to overwork so the exposure never arrives. Sometimes there's a younger part in the mix too, one that learned early that being good wasn't quite enough. None of these is a flaw. Each is trying to protect you with a strategy that made sense once and has outlived its use.

When you can see these as parts of you doing a job, you get some room to work with them instead of being run by whichever one shouts first. That's the ground parts work for executives covers in depth.

Why the usual fix fails

Why talking yourself out of it doesn't hold

The standard advice is to counter the feeling with evidence. You write down your achievements and look at the results. This can settle things for an afternoon. It rarely holds, because imposter feelings live lower down than belief, in a nervous system that reads high visibility as danger and responds before your rational mind gets a say.

Because it's physiological as much as cognitive, the more reliable work happens in the body. Somatic leadership describes how a regulated nervous system gives you access to a steadiness that no amount of positive self-talk can manufacture.

What helps

What actually helps

Working with imposter syndrome at executive level tends to move along a few lines. The first is noticing the feeling as it arrives, early, before it starts shaping how you show up in a room. Another is getting to know the parts involved and what they're afraid of, so they don't need to shout to be heard. Underneath both sits the physical work of building the capacity to stay settled when you're most visible, which is the exact situation that sets the feeling off.

The goal isn't to never feel like an imposter again. Plenty of capable leaders feel it and lead well regardless. What changes is that the feeling stops running the show. It becomes a passing sensation you can work alongside, and it loses its authority over what you do next.

This is much of what we do in one-to-one executive coaching, where the strategy sits next to the deeper work on the patterns that drive it.

A grounded note on scope

The limits of this work

This is coaching. It works on leadership performance and self-regulation for capable people under pressure, and it stays outside the territory of diagnosis and treatment. If imposter feelings are part of significant distress or a mental health concern, that deserves proper psychological or medical care, and coaching can sit alongside it. No outcome is guaranteed. What the work offers is better access to capacities you already have.

Common questions

Frequently asked questions

What is imposter syndrome in executives?
It's the ongoing sense that you've fooled people about your competence and could be exposed at any moment, despite clear evidence of your ability. In senior leaders it's common and often intensifies with seniority, as the work gets more ambiguous and honest feedback becomes rarer at the top.
Why does imposter syndrome get worse at senior levels?
Because the markers that reassured you earlier fall away. Competence becomes harder to measure, few people are positioned to validate your work, and the higher visibility and stakes give self-doubt more room. Many leaders also hide the feeling from their peers, so each assumes they're the only one experiencing it.
Can executive coaching help with imposter syndrome?
Yes. Coaching that combines work with the internal parts driving the feeling and somatic regulation tends to help more than talking yourself out of it, because imposter feelings sit in the nervous system as much as in your thinking. The aim is to stop the feeling dictating how you lead, so it becomes manageable even when it shows up.
Where to start

Lead without the feeling running the show

If self-doubt keeps showing up in the moments you most need to be steady, it's workable, and it responds to the right kind of attention. Book a free 30-minute call and we'll talk through where it's landing for you and whether this approach fits.

About the author. Rudi Doku is an executive and leadership coach based in Melbourne. He's an ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and Certified Integral Coach with an INSEAD Executive Master in Change, a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, and trained in Internal Family Systems. He serves on the transformation faculty of Mobius Executive Leadership. More about Rudi, or book a free 30-minute call.